Thank God I do not take him or his posts seriously. I know who he is. He is not able to offend me , no matter what words he will use.
Somebody had to do the job and point out his nonsense here.I took the responsibility.
I agree with your observations fully. Seems to be a pattern of late.burgundia wrote:I am glad some of you have noticed about HL what I noticed several days ago. Thank you Floyd for pointing to other members what Higher Love wrote about me. I was rather surprised when, afterwards, I saw posts asking Higher Love for forgiveness,praising him or feeling for him.
Thank God I do not take him or his posts seriously. I know who he is. He is not able to offend me , no matter what words he will use.
Somebody had to do the job and point out his nonsense here.I took the responsibility.
burgundia wrote: Simply restoring parity and keeping an eye on the old school where others did not.
I am opening this thread to collect testimonies of any unusual symptoms some of you may have been experiencing lately that would indicated a collective change we are going through.
HigherLove wrote:Threecaster wrote:We must learn from the things that give us pain. Most of the time this is why we have chosen them. Our thoughts continue to return to the point with a particular facet of an expectation, or a desire that we do not understand. When someone we care deeply about does not (follow, respect, adhere; choose your poison) along the lines of the way we think (or feel) things should unfold, this can cause us to get "stuck" in a loop. This is doubled so if the desires and expectations of the significant other are in (probably only apparently) conflict or contradiction.
Like the Oracle in The Matrix said: "We cannot see past the choices we do not understand."
This leads to us taking it personally. We see this as a judgement on our character. Our thoughts can fall into tighter and tighter spirals untill we self destruct. But...very often the other person has their own issues and battles they are dealing with. When they find solutions to their problems, situations that can make them happy, if only for a short time...and even if the sources of these things DO NOT COME FROM YOU, it would seem that this should be encouraged....yes?
Is everyone having a good time? Would anyone like more drinks?
Like a recurring dream, a message is trying to be gotten across here. There is something we must learn from the PERCIEVED hurt, or harm.
Additionally, it is very easy to get eaten by the loop; to focus excluively on the hurt. For a short time this is required. But we must focus on the good things we still have.
Are we still together? Is everyone talking, enjoying each others company? Laughing and smiling?
Love is deeper than many of us humans know. The universe loves us unconditionaly, and lets us make our own choices so we can learn them properly. But (he, she , it) will still be there for us when have learned our lesson and been stripped (or shorn, or risen above) the posessions that caused us so much pain.
Forgiving yourself for trying so hard is a start. It's working. Trust me. It's working for all of us. Just sometimes the results get into the undercurrents. Those are the best ones anyways...
Learning to replace the hungry inner spiralling with love, compassion, and understanding is hard. (Sometimes you have to use a hammer!) But at the core of our human beans is love. We just have to learn to accept and forgive ourselves, in the way we are at this moment.
Cool theory.
Thanks!
Edit: after reading more, I am not sure why I chose the word "theory". Well, I was until just typed that and realized the answer is within your post. :op
Thanks, brother!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Higher Love did point out his errors and thoughtlessness towards a few members on the Forum before Floyd brought up the mess...and others chimed in with the wrongfulness of it all. For God's sake are any of us perfect? Anger, rage, pain and madness stir up the muck! Are any of us exempt from those emotions including myself? Higher Love said "please forgive me for my actions"...In my books forgiveness is everything. Burgundia and Susan have enough awareness and understanding to know Higher Love's true character which is Love. If those slighted wish to throw stones...and the rest of the sentence goes?
No Higher Love my friend...you are not "done" as you claim.
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HigherLove wrote:Oh, mudra...this thread has been a safe haven...thank you, thank you, thank you.
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Brook wrote:Perhaps threads like this really don't wish to deal with the core of "How has everyone been doing lately"? Perhaps it's best to keep your personal life to yourself..Especially when the SHTF. As most here are not truly equipped to handle it no matter how well equipped with love and light you may think it requires to deal with such adversity.
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Carol wrote:Just to set the record straight. HL flounced after he saw that Floyd had outed him and my reaction.
HL by-passed the word filter to attack and insult burgundia. He also attacked and insulted Susan in a very unkind manner and was furious with Floyd for exposing the truth. I appreciated that he apologize but didn't realize exactly what that was about until reading what I had missed in earlier posts.
HL was editing his profile, much the way Brook did during her meltdown, so I banned him immediately, just in case, so there would not be a repeat of data being destroyed.
He can return in 30 days if he wishes too. However, just to be clear - there is zero tolerance for by-passing the swear word filter to insult another member and zero tolerance for trolling as well.
I back "right action." "Right action" means to maintain an attitude of respect even when one disagrees, is hurting or is angry.