malletzky Tue May 04, 2010 8:58 am
And all of this reminds me of Ho'oponopono: everything that is, becomes "your problem" as soon as you come to know about the subject (persons, illnesses, whatever...) and YOU will have to deal with it and become responsible for whatever you do after you come to know about the subject.
No ignorance is allowed...you MUST deal with the subject, at least innerly...and sure try to avoid conflicts.
Unconditional love becomes obvious as soon as you dealed and solved the problem (at least innerly).
Means, as soon as you managed to avoid the conflict, solved it and became responsible with the consequences, you don't and won't feel hate so the only thing that left is...love.
with much love and respect
Mall...
Spregovori wrote:So the general agreement (of those involved) seems to be that:
- your reaction to whatever someones says and does is your problem, deal with it
- you are responsible for your actions
- ignore if provoked
- avoid conflict
- defend if attacked
- unconditional love is not something you see in a movie or read in a romantic novel
- it is ok to go and "interfere" with life of another as long as the intent is benevolent
- when asked a question a honest answer should be given
- learn from experience and take care of yourself before taking care of others
I think that we as people are light years away from this.
Still it is somewhat "surprising" that topic was able to evolve this far. It seems that the careful choice of words, expressions and examples did prove to be a "safe" way of presenting a subject such as this....
Which brings me to the next thing - how would it look like to not be careful?
Just how quick the hammer might fall....on the white-hot grounds....
eof