Della Nishizaki says:
"Correct...I never make it my business to care what others think of me...
I care what I think about myself.
No one knows me like I have come to know myself.
We all need to make our boundaries clear..
people focus on others as a distraction to avoid the difficult self reflective inner work,
the most important work of all.
be no one's scapegoat XXOO"